In today's world , parent's are pressurising their kids or stressing upon obtaining marks.
Getting excellent or good marks or percentage is really the need of the hour ?
Parent's view point
Marks play important role to get admission.
Marks show how well our child is studying?
Marks give feedback.
Sharing marks or percentage is a matter of status symbol.
Child's view point
How can percentage or marks determine my capabilities ?
Can marks help me to outshine in competition ?
Being well informed or knowledgeable is not good ?
Will my marks or percentage be asked by my employer during interview ?
Will employer recruit me if my percentage is good?
What is your opinion ?
As a parent what do you think ?
There are many success stories of people who were not class apart or outshined in their school or college level have not been successful.
In every field competitive exams are there to get into your field of choice. So be smart,be well informed,be knowledgeable, be updated.
While entering, college your knowledge is tested
While entering or for obtaining job your skill to solve problems will be tested.
So do you think as a parent how much marks your child score matters.
Do not make percentage or marks as a matter of status - instead feel proud of your child being intelligent enough to pass the hurdles of education with ease. Be proud of the fact that your child has potential and capability to do so.
Encourage your child to read or watch not only success stories but failure stories too to get inspiration and be aware of steps to be taken to achieve their goal.
Most importantly, feel proud of your child being smart and intelligent enough to face the problems of life.
Prepare your child to focus on
How to dealt with failures, solve problems.
How to deal with worst situations and successfully come out of it with grace.
Always teach your child that exams are part of life . Do not be frightened.
As after every dark phase their is a golden light to pave your way through to feel happy and content that you crossed these hurdles with your self confidence ,hard work, and
Now is the time to relax or taste your success or share your success with your near and dear ones
Let your kids feel free to express themselves, whether it's related to marks, percentage or any issue related to their life.
Be a friend,a guide ,a philosopher to guide them to toughest of time.
Remember parents guidance is important and that is what you are giving them as assest to guide future generations.
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